FOCUS: Bridging cultures and bonds through Rotary students

Samantha, Terry, Reilly, Abbey, Heather Swaim and Nancy Meldrum.

By Terry Swaim

AUBURN, Ga.  |  Last year, our family had the incredible opportunity to host Nancy Meldrum, a Georgia Rotary Student Program participant from England. Little did we know that this experience would not only enrich her life but also deeply impact ours in ways we could have never imagined.

Heather, Abbey, Reilly, Samantha Swaim and Nancy Meldrum.

From the moment Nancy arrived, she fit right into our family, quickly becoming what we often referred to her as our fourth daughter. We proudly shared with her the richness of our southern culture, from our favorite foods (Chick-fil-A, Waffle House) to our cherished pastimes like hunting, fishing, Disney World, church on Sundays and the fervor of high school and college football. As she immersed herself in our way of life, we witnessed the genuine curiosity and openness with which she approached every new experience.

When it was time for Nancy to return home, our farewells were tearful but filled with the promise of staying connected. True to our word, we maintained regular communication, and to our delight, Nancy’s family extended a warm invitation for us to visit them in England.

Our journey across the pond was nothing short of extraordinary. We marveled at the grandeur of London, feasted on British fare, and explored historical treasures like the Crown Jewels and iconic landmarks. However, the true highlight awaited us in the quaint countryside of Shropshire, where Nancy’s family (Tim, Louisa, Miriam and their cat, Frank) welcomed us to stay in what once was a sheep barn now transformed into a beautiful rental home.

In their picturesque countryside, steeped in centuries of history, we discovered the true essence of British hospitality. From ancient churches to cozy pubs, from majestic castles to serene gardens, every moment was imbued with a sense of tradition and community. But beyond the tangible landmarks, it was the warmth, generosity, and love of Nancy’s family that left the most profound impression on us.

At Stokesay Castle in Shropshire England, built in 13-14th Century: Tim, Nancy, and Louisa Meldrum; Samantha, Abbey, Heather, Reilly, and Terry Swaim.

As we shared stories, laughter, and meals around their table, we realized that despite our differences in culture and geography, we were fundamentally the same. We all yearned for the same things – love, connection, serving others and a sense of belonging. Through our shared experiences, we found common ground and forged bonds that transcended borders.

Reflecting on our journey, we couldn’t help but acknowledge the transformative power of programs like the Georgia Rotary Student Program had on our family. What began as a simple exchange of hospitality blossomed into a profound exchange of understanding and friendship. In a world often divided by cultural, spiritual, or political differences, it is these personal connections that serve as the true catalysts for lasting friendships.

To anyone considering hosting someone from another country, whether a student or a family, we urge you to seize the opportunity. The blessings you receive are numerous. For us, hosting Nancy not only expanded our family but also broadened our horizons, enriching our lives in ways we will forever cherish.

In the end, it’s not just about where you travel or whom you host – it’s about the connections you make, the memories you share and the friendships you forge along the way. 

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